Shared calendar not showing up ical never recieved invite

Unfortunately, switching to using the iCloud calendar is not an option. Is there a way to turn off this iCloud calendar from accepting invites, so that these invites can be sent to my Gmail as a normal email invite? It appears as though Apple recognizes the email address when someone tries to invite me, and instead of sending the invite to the email, just adds it to the iCloud calendar. Any ideas why this is happening and how I can get the calendar to show up on mobile 0 comments. Following two messages are showing: At the meeting organizer, you do not need to respond to the meeting. On organizer end, event is not adding into their calendar (accept/reject buttons are grayed out).

However, it doesnt show up in iCal, on my phone or iPad, despite being visible on my MacBook and iMac. I am sending same invite to organizer as well.

This never used to be an issue for me in the past when I didn't utilize an iPhone (but still had the same Apple ID), but now I am unable to receive any invite from an Apple user to that specific Gmail. I have a shared calendar, made using google calendar, used at work that I am subscribed to. This is what I want to happen when someone else with an iPhone and iCloud Calendar invites my main Gmail to a meeting. I tested this on my own, and 'invited' another Gmail account I have from the Apple Calendar app - it sent an email invite to that Gmail, which I could open, click add to calendar, and have on that calendar. This causes me to miss events that I need to be added to. Instead, it gets added to the built in iCloud Calendar that I never use. But, when someone sends me a calendar invite from their Apple Calendar app, I don't get an email in Gmail, and it there's no invite on my Google Calendar. I also use Google Calendar as my main calendar.

Shared calendar not showing up ical never recieved invite